touching

 

Hey guys, it's time to learn the subtle art of touching without being creepy. As with eye contact, hopefully your new mind-set has started improving this area of your life, but if you're still an introvert with your hands in your pockets you're going to have a tough period of readjustment.

First off, the difference between the creepy guy and the friendly hugger is the hugger touches everyone with no pre-thought behind it, which is going to be a problem while you're learning it but will help you no end when it finally becomes natural. So start off light by learning to shake hands or high five people you meet and once you're comfortable with that move on to positive reinforcement. If someone makes you laugh give them a pat on the back, if they give you a compliment touch them lightly on the arm when you thank them and if you friendly rib them when you say just kidding give men a light punch in the arm and women a hug. Some people also find it helpful to talk with their hands more to make touching more natural.

Once being more hands on becomes part of you, it will make escalating things sexually much faster and easier. Anything she already was comfortable with is fine to do again, so just remember to always press forward and don't retreat unless you make her uncomfortable and even then just retreat to the last point she was comfortable then press forward again once she's more relaxed with you. Personally I believe touching should progress situationally and naturally, but if you insist on a step-by-step guide, look up v

Vin de Carlos escalation ladder. So now we've sorted out the big 3  non-verbal communications your brain has to work on, next time just because you don't have to be great looking doesn't mean you shouldn't be looking great, so it's time to scrub up nice. Till then guys be cool and stay sexy.

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