eye contact

 

Hey guys, never underestimate the importance of good eye contact. The eyes are not only the windows to the soul, but also the front door to her underwear. If you have been practising your mind-sets to be an honest confident leader your body language including eye contact should have already improved but as it's so important I thought we should go ahead and give it a final tune up.

We will start with the mechanics. Don't look away first and don't look down at the floor (you can do the down and up checking her out, but ideally that's after she breaks first eye contact) when your eyes lock smile and nod while keeping the lock if she looks up in disgust shrug and ignore. If she looks to the side she has no opinion of you yet try again later. If she holds your gaze, the game is on, walk over whilst still holding the gaze (this may take some practice) and start a conversation. If she looks down and smiles, ding ding ding, we have a winner! She's attracted to you, get in there quick. Also while talking you will still want a lot of eye contact but don't try and stare in both eyes at once and don't dart between eyes, pick one eye and stick with it (some people think the left eyes best, but I have no proof to back that up still since you have to pick an eye anyway, why not) now be warned there's a reason mind-sets went before eye contact. I made the mistake of going all out with eye contact before working on my inner self and more than once got called the weird starry guy, remember your eyes tell someone a lot more than where you're looking, which brings us to our next section.

I can see what you're thinking. As well as a strong gaze, you need the right thought going on behind the eyes. If all your thinking is please look away first then you're in deep manure, if you're thinking i wanna sex you up your half way there, if you're thinking I know you want me you nearly got it but if your thinking stop picturing me naked you dirty minx then bingo, a strong enough frame of you believing she's trying to seduce you, and you can get her to believe it too. So remember strong eye contact and the right thought can do wonders before you've even crossed the room to meet her, but once you do cross the room we get to the third non-verbal, yes in my next post it's time to get in touch with touching. Till then guys  be cool and stay sexy.

Dangerous.