mind-sets

 

OK guys, time to rid yourselves of some wrong thinking. Let's start with the basic lies you have been told. Women DO think about and want sex as much as we do, maybe more. No, it's not necessary to buy her affection with chocolates, flowers or alcohol. And finally, you don't have to trick a woman into your bed.

Next we get on to those pesky half-truths. Yes, women do like bad boys, but not because they are arseholes, it's because they have the mind-sets that nice guys don't.  They're not needy or clingy and tend to be honest about their desires. They tell a woman what they want without begging or pleading and don't care what her reaction might be as there are plenty more fish in the sea. Which it is quite possible for you to do without being a complete git by displaying…

Half-truth number 2 being confident and funny. Confident is 100% true, it's the funny that trips guys up. Witty comebacks, innuendo and playful ribbing are fine, but telling jokes all night and being a clown for her entertainment are definite no noes. Now for the not being a git part, where bad boys succeed and arseholes fail is that an arsehole never complements a woman. Where bad boys succeed and nice guys fail is he gives the complement without looking for something in return. Nice guys are always careful what they say as they are worried about her reaction or are hoping for a compliment in return (see needy above) but the proper thing to do is be honest and not worry about what she does next, if you think she has nice tits don't tell her you like her eyes and wait to see what she does next, tell her she has nice tits and keep talking about whatever your talking about.

Now for half-truth number 3 and it's the biggie, BE YOURSELF. I bet you're thinking to yourself I've been doing that, and it hasn't worked, but have you? What they don't tell you is to be your best self by being honest and straight forward. Don't lie and pretend you're something you're not, learn to be something better than you are,  we have started to cover positive mind-sets here, but I will go into them more fully in my next post. Till then guys be cool and stay sexy.

Dangerous.